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When you consider the advantages and disadvantages of being your own attorney in divorce court, it comes down to cost vs. risk.
As a “pro per” party in California (filing without an attorney), the courts expect that you will do everything a lawyer does. You may be able to save money by filing without representation; however, making errors in your filings, missing important deadlines, etc., may cause delays in your case.
In cases with no conflict or where the parties are in agreement, using structured tools like The Complete Divorce may assist in reducing common errors while helping you meet all necessary requirements for accuracy.
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Taking care of your own case is more than just a matter of money. When you choose to represent yourself in a divorce from the beginning (without an attorney) in California, you will have complete control over the way that your case develops.
Many divorcing couples use this method as a means to resolve their conflicts rather than engaging in adversarial litigation. Learn more about different types of divorce. The following are the pros of self-representation divorce.
The most obvious advantage of representing yourself when going through a divorce is that it can save you money.
Instead of paying for expensive attorney retainer fees or hourly fees, you can handle the whole process yourself and pocket a large portion of the expenses of traditional divorce litigation.
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When each party represents themselves in a divorce, the atmosphere typically becomes less adversarial.
This way both parties can focus on reaching an agreement instead of fighting in court with separate attorneys.
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You do not have to wait for law firms. As long as you stay on top of your case and take action on the issues that need attention, you’ll be able to move your divorce forward without unnecessary delays.
Your divorce documents, timeline, and decision-making process are all under your control.
With structured support from a system such as The Complete Divorce, you will have access to guidance, step-by-step instructions, and tools for accurate filing while still being able to make choices regarding your own case.
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Self-representing yourself in divorce has also cons, which usually comes from knowing little. Likewise legal separation also has its pros and cons. Learn more how legal separation is distinct from divorce.
Long story short, California courts require you to comply with all the same rules as attorneys, and mistakes can impact your case outcome. The following are the cons obstructing self-representation.
Missed deadlines or filing the incorrect paperwork will cause the court to reject it.
Examples include the FL-140, a financial disclosure form, which requires accurate completion and exchange.
Most delays in cases and returns are due to errors made when completing and exchanging these documents.
Not having the legal knowledge for issues such as spousal support, pension, and property division could result in you agreeing to terms that will not ultimately provide for your long-term financial well-being. A structured guideline would help calculate these issues more precisely.
Doing it on your own will have its limitations when there is a significant power imbalance between you and your spouse.
This includes financial knowledge, decision-making ability, or access to the information necessary to make informed decisions.
If one spouse has an attorney and the other does not, this will create an obvious advantage for the spouse represented by counsel during negotiations and subsequent court hearings.
Self-representation can work well when your divorce case is fairly simple, and there is cooperation. A good example is in an uncontested divorce, where both spouses have agreed to all terms of the agreement, and you wish to obtain a divorce without the use of a Lawyer.
Pro Se is also particularly effective for Summary Dissolution cases, as they typically involve issues that have been previously resolved.
However, it’s best to avoid representing yourself if your divorce case involves complex issues like domestic violence, hidden assets, or serious disputes.
These situations require legal representation and the meticulousness of the law to achieve a fair outcome for all.
If you want to be in charge of your own California divorce without paying for an attorney, you don’t have to do it all on your own.
With The Complete Divorce, you’ll receive structured support, a step-by-step guide through the process, as well as tools and resources to assist with preparing all of the necessary court ready documents.
This makes sure that you are in complete control of your divorce process while avoiding errors that can delay your case. Start and complete your self-representation divorce with The Complete Divorce. Subscribe for $49.99/mo to complete your divorce without a lawyer.
The most frequent error occurs during the financial disclosure process. Financial Disclosure forms (e.g. FL-140 & FL-142) must be completed and filed accurately.
Small errors in the documentation may cause delays in processing of the case or possible dismissal of the case. Using a structured tool like, The Complete Divorce, will help you to create all necessary court ready documents prior to submitting them to the court.
You can hire an attorney at any time throughout the process. However, corrections for earlier mistakes may be more difficult and expensive.
The best approach would be to receive correct advice and file proper documents early on in the process to avoid delays and keep your case on track.
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