--- title: "How Do I End My Marriage Peacefully In CA? Step-by-Step" description: "An attorney-mediator explains how to end a marriage in California, including your legal options, residency rules, and the step-by-step process to help you move forward with clarity..." url: https://thecompletedivorce.com/how-to-end-a-marriage-in-california/ date: 2026-04-08 modified: 2026-06-03 author: "Dina Haddad" image: https://thecompletedivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Step-by-Step-Process-to-End-a-Marriage-Amicably-in-California.webp categories: ["Uncontested divorce"] type: post lang: en --- # How Do I End My Marriage Peacefully In CA? Step-by-Step Contents - [ Ways to End Marriage ](#Ways%20to%20end%20marriage) - [ Residency Requirements ](#residency%20requirements) - [ The Process to End Marriage ](#process%20to%20End%20marriage) - [ Ending Marriage Peacefully ](#ending%20marriage) - [ How You End Marriage Matters ](#ending%20marriage%20matters) - [ FAQ ](#faq) Online Divorce Divorce smartly without a lawyer. Save yourself $10,000+. [ Start My Divorce ](https://buy.stripe.com/bJe8wO4Inbryg8y2Ar3ZK01) - 100% Legit Divorce Program # How to End a Marriage Peacefully in California? Dina Haddad Founder & Attorney Mediator [ Facebook ](https://www.facebook.com/thecompletedivorce/) [ Linkedin ](https://www.linkedin.com/in/dinahaddad/) [ X-twitter ](https://twitter.com/MediatorDina) [ Youtube ](https://www.youtube.com/@divorcewithdina) [ Tiktok ](https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcewithdina) I’m Dina Haddad, a family law attorney-mediator in California. I’m so tired of couples not having a process that’s easy to complete their divorce. They are getting lost, wasting time and money, and beyond frustrated with their results.That’s why I created [The Complete Divorce](https://thecompletedivorce.com/). I took my successful mediation practice and condensed it into an affordable and winning program. ![](https://thecompletedivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/Dina-Haddad-1.webp) [ View Profile ](https://thecompletedivorce.com/about-us/) California has a [number of ways to end a marriage](https://thecompletedivorce.com/types-of-divorce-california/), such as [filing for divorce in California](https://thecompletedivorce.com/how-to-file-for-divorce-in-california-by-yourself-2026-guide/), filing for legal separation, filing for an annulment, or obtaining a summary dissolution.  Most proceedings are based upon “irreconcilable differences” due to the state’s no fault policy. 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[ Start Divorce ](https://buy.stripe.com/bJe8wO4Inbryg8y2Ar3ZK01) ![](https://thecompletedivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/google-icon.png)⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 2000+ California couples divorced. ## The 4 Legal Ways to End a Marriage in California ![4 Legal Pathways to end a marriage to California](https://thecompletedivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/The-4-Legal-Pathways-to-End-a-Marriage-in-California-1-717x1024.webp) There are many ways that couples can legally end their marriages in California. Each option has a different function depending upon if you wish to continue being married as husband and wife or completely end your marital status.  The first step in ending a marriage in California is to choose the best way for you to end it, which means you need to know what option fits your situation. ### 1. Divorce (dissolution of marriage) Divorce is by far the most common way to dissolve a marriage in California. After a divorce has been finalized, each spouse will be returned to their individual marital status and can then remarry. Learn more about [how soon after divorce you can marry](https://thecompletedivorce.com/how-soon-remarry-after-divorce-ca/).  The court system resolves important issues during the divorce, including child custody, child support, spousal support, distribution of community property and who is responsible for the debt.  For a deeper breakdown of how divorce differs from legal separation, see our guide on[ California divorce vs legal separation](https://thecompletedivorce.com/california-divorce-or-legal-separation/). ### 2. Legal separation Legal separation in California provides couples with the opportunity to separate while still remaining married. Legal separation also gives spouses the ability to resolve financial and parental responsibilities.  For parties to have a legal separation, both spouses must agree to the legal separation. If one party wants a divorce, the court will order a divorce since California is a no-fault state. Spouses decide whether they want to continue being married based upon many factors, such as faith-based reasons, health insurance, or unique personal reasons. If two spouses choose to legally separate, they cannot marry someone else until either one obtains a divorce. ### 3. Summary dissolution [Summary Dissolution](https://thecompletedivorce.com/summary-dissolution-in-ca-divorce/) is an extremely fast and simple way to finalize your divorce if you qualify. Summary dissolution is applicable to marriages which are less than five years old and have no minor children, limited amounts of property and debts.  In order to complete summary dissolution, both spouses must completely agree on all aspects of the divorce and waive some rights, like right to spousal support. Summary dissolution makes it easier to complete your divorce because there are fewer details required. ### 4. Annulment (nullity of marriage) An annulment in California means that the court finds that a couple’s marriage was invalid from its inception.  An annulment usually involves serious circumstances and a couple would need to prove that there were fraudulent activities involved, like the use of force or coercion, or one party was already married when entering into the new marriage. Annulments are significantly less common than divorces. ## Ending the Marriage and Residency Requirements Before filing for divorce or a summary dissolution in California you must meet the residency requirements.  At least one party to the marriage must have resided in the State of California for six (6) months and in the county where they filed the divorce papers for at least three (3) months.  Summary dissolution is available as an alternative to divorce, as well as legal separation. ** **Read more:** [I’m Getting a Divorce, But Can’t Afford an Attorney](https://thecompletedivorce.com/getting-a-divorce-but-cant-afford-an-attorney/). ## Step-by-Step Process to End a Marriage Amicably in California ![Step by Step Process to end a marriage peacefully in California](https://thecompletedivorce.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/Step-by-Step-Process-to-End-a-Marriage-Amicably-in-California-1024x614.webp) To begin filing the paperwork to [start your divorce](https://thecompletedivorce.com/choosing-divorce-process-in-california/) in California quickly and [without a lawyer](https://thecompletedivorce.com/divorce-without-a-lawyer-in-california/), you need to understand the different types of [paperwork ](https://thecompletedivorce.com/california-divorce-forms/)that are required during the divorce process as well as their order. ### Step 1: Filing the petition A spouse initiates the divorce, legal separation or nullity process by filing the[ FL-100 Petition](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-100-petition-divorce-online-california/) and FL-110 Summons that outlines their request for property, child custody and spousal support. If there are children, the party must also complete and file the FL-105 (UCCJEA). Alternatively, parties can now opt to file a joint petition, [FL-700](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-700-joint-petition-california/). The FL-700 must also include the FL-105 if there are children. There are many resources available to help couples navigate this very difficult time, such as [The Complete Divorce](https://thecompletedivorce.com/), which provides templates to correctly prepare these legal documents. ### Step 2: Notifying the other spouse Service of process is mandatory. A spouse must be personally served with either [FL-115 (service by personal delivery)](https://thecompletedivorce.com/california-form-fl-115-proof-of-service-of-summons-guide/) or and FL-117 (service by mail). If spouses are filing jointly under [FL-700](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-700-joint-petition-california/), no service is necessary because both parties have agreed. ### Step 3: Filing a response If the joint petition was not used, then the other party (Respondent) must file [FL-120](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-120-how-to-complete-the-response-forms-for-a-ca-divorce/), Response, and serve it on their spouse (Petitioner). The Respondent can use mail service using FL-335. If there are minor children, the Respondent must also include the FL-105 (UCCJEA). ### Step 4: Financial disclosure Spouses must submit financial information to each other using: [FL-140 Declaration of Disclosure](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-140-form-declaration-of-disclosure-ca-divorce/) and [FL-141 Declaration Regarding Service of Disclosure](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-141-declaration-service-disclosure-income/). These forms allow for transparency of all assets, liabilities, and income that exist at the time of divorce. This requirement is important for a valid divorce in California. These forms will include the Declarations of Disclosure: FL-150 Income and Expense Declaration and FL-142 Schedule of Assets and Debts, or FL-160s Declaration of Property ### Step 5: Reaching an agreement Once parties have fully disclosed their assets and debts, couples can negotiate an agreement on issues such as custody, property and support without going through a trial. Couples who reach an early agreement can save money and time.  Using services such as [The Complete Divorce](https://thecompletedivorce.com/) can help couples end the marriage with the ease and peace of mind that every amicable, uncontested divorce couple deserve.  We help parties with concrete proper documentation that meets all California divorce laws. Our online divorce program includes a high-quality [Marital Settlement Agreement](https://thecompletedivorce.com/california-marital-settlement-agreement-guide/) (MSA) that is customizable, fully editable, and court approved. ### Step 6: Finalizing the divorce Once the divorce is approved, the Court will sign the documents (specifically, [FL-180 Judgment](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-180-judgment-form-california-divorce/)), and once signed, the couple’s marital status will have been terminated after at least six months and one day from the date of filing. ## Ending a Marriage Peacefully and Affordably You don’t always have to hire an expensive attorney, especially when you want a [low-cost divorce in California](https://thecompletedivorce.com/low-cost-divorce-in-california/). Following court procedure in uncontested cases and using quality resources will often save you money.  Some people also want to be their own attorneys ([Pro Se](https://thecompletedivorce.com/how-to-file-for-divorce-in-california-by-yourself-2026-guide/)) during the divorce process by filling out all of the necessary forms themselves. That is where services like The Complete Divorce (starting at $49.99/month) come in to help make sure everything is done accurately and to keep your costs down. ### Special situation: ending a child marriage Child marriage is a special situation as it can be dissolved by an annulment (nullity) in California. To begin, “nullity” should be selected when completing [Form FL-100](https://thecompletedivorce.com/fl-100-petition-divorce-online-california/).  The underage spouse generally has four years from their 18th birthday to file for dissolution; if the person is still a minor, then they will require assistance from a Guardian Ad Litem. ## How You End Your Marriage Matters How you end your marriage in California matters. 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